You’re not a jerk. You always have so much on your shoulders and you never take any shortcuts, everything gets done the right and responsible way… anyone who likes you is bound to find that admirable, so they won’t begrudge it if you’ve just been too preoccupied to notice.

And it’s not like you just don’t care about people. You’re always considerate and conscientious. One slip should be forgivable.

[Suga’s looking down at the gravel under his feet, expression unusually solemn.]

… are you sure you’d always rather know? I mean, you’ve already had one big shock.